Valentines Day-

So Valentines day is just a few days away.... I kinda find this holiday a little annoying, don't get me wrong it is a fun holiday but....  This is the time of the year where people are all sad if they don't have anyone, and those who do brag about it ALOT!
I've been trying to help some friends hook up and realize how much I do not miss the dating scene! there are too many games and not enough communication.  All I have to say to my single friends is to enjoy it! it might seem like you will be single forever and ya its great to have someone but it is lots of work to also be with someone. when your single you have more freedom to do stuff and to do what makes you happy so you singles out there enjoy your time to your self because once you have found that person, your whole world will change!.

For those of you who do have someone...
I do find it a little annoying when people say that they have the best spouse in the whole world and everyone should be jealous. for example " I have the best husband in the whole world tough luck lady's he is taken and you cant have him i feel sorry for you"  come on!!!! I'm sure every spouse is wonderful to there spouse, but why would I want him? I have my own and I  am  not jealous of yours in any way. not everyone in the world is meant to be with everyone. I'm glad you found your perfect someone but that might not be the perfect someone for someone else. sorry i might just be dragging this out but i just find it really annoying!  ha ha!

Single-Dating-Married= Love!

It doesn't matter where  you are in life. if your single, dating, or married you should show the people you love how much they mean to you. Valentines day is a day for us to share a little more of how much we love someone. don't forget the rest of the year to show the people you care about that you love them! I know being married doesn't really feel any different than the last 4 1/2 years  iv been with Joel. but it is always important to show that love. you can call someone on the phone, wright little notes, or even get a little treat for someone just remember to keep in contact with the people in your lives.
I don't want to sound mushy or anything ha ha but it is going to be Valentines Day soon and I just wanted to say I'm very grateful to be married to Joel he is my whole world and even tho being married can be tough. i wouldn't change it for the world.
So HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY EVERYONE DON'T FORGET TO SHOW YOUR LOVE TO THOSE YOU CARE ABOUT!!!!!